Apr 16

What you see really is what you get

Posted in Techniques
This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series Positive Psychology

I’m studying biological psychology at the moment, and in one of the articles set for us to read I came across a reference to research showing the powerful effect of mental attitude.

The study is called “Does humor moderate the effects of experimentally-induced stress?” (Newman & Stone, 1996, published in Annals of Behavioral Medicine 18:2, DOI 10.1007/BF02909582).

Wheels Ain't Movin'
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What they did was to find 80 people, half of whom tested high for the trait of “humour” and half of whom tested low. They split each group – high-humour and low-humour – in two and assigned them different tasks. All of them watched the same stressful silent film, but half the participants were asked to write a humourous monologue to go with the film, while the other half wrote a serious monologue.

The experimenters tested the participants’ heart rate, skin conductance level, and skin temperature, which are three markers of stress, continuously for the fifteen minutes before, during, and fifteen minutes after the film. They also asked them to rate their own mood and tension level before and after the film.

What they found was that “Compared to the production of a serious narrative, humor production led to lower negative affect, lower tension, and reduced psychophysiological reactivity for both high and low trait-humor groups.”

Same destiny - O mesmo destino
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Now, this is an especially important result, because a strategy that only worked for people who were already naturally inclined to humour, while useful, would be a lot less useful than one that apparently works whether you have a “good sense of humour” or not.

The other important point I want to highlight is this: Everyone watched the same film. The difference between the people who experienced more stress and those who experienced less stress was not in what they saw but in how they approached it.

I used to be quite a cynical and negative person (and mildly depressive, for quite a long time). Over the years I’ve gradually learned to be more optimistic and look at life more positively. As a hypnotherapist, it’s part of my job to phrase things positively, because negative suggestions don’t tend to work very well – they just focus people’s minds on the things they want to stop, and they end up doing those things even more. I’m sure my work is doing me a great deal of good, because I’m continually exercising the skill of finding the positive in all kinds of situations.

So next time you find yourself in a stressful situation, try it out. Compose a humourous monologue in your head, and see if it makes a difference.

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Apr 29

A permanent solution to a temporary problem

Posted in News
This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Positive Psychology

Today’s post is a difficult one, and at first sight an odd fit for the Positive Psychology series. I’m going to talk about suicide.

The reason is that a relative of mine by marriage has just committed suicide, much to the shock and grief of all of us. He had been going through difficult times and had had a serious psychological break last year, but he seemed to be on the mend. Apparently not.

I live in a country with a high suicide rate, especially among youth. Inevitably, I have been touched by it before, though never so closely. One of my closest friends attempted suicide when we were in our 20s, and fortunately didn’t succeed (he is now pleased that he didn’t, though it took him a while to get to that perspective). I myself, at the lowest point in my life, once had suicidal thoughts for eight days running, but never acted on them. I still had enough perspective left to realize how devastating it would be for my friends and family, and that held me to life long enough for me to escape from the situation (and the pain) by a better way.

I think rather than do my usual technical post, the best thing I can do now is tell a story. Many years ago, there was a king who suffered from terrible mood swings. When he was up, he would rave and make terrible decisions, confident of his own greatness; when he was down, he would sit and do nothing, convinced of his own worthlessness. In modern terms, he was manic-depressive. But this was centuries ago, and the wise men and healers he called to advise him could find no solution for him.

At last his Fool approached him. “My Lord,” he said, “I have had made for you a wonderful ring. Slip it on your finger now, without looking, and next time one of your moods comes upon you, take it off and look inside, and you will see something that may help you.”

The king went along with the Fool and wore the ring. Soon afterwards, he became elated and began striding about, issuing grandiose orders – until he remembered the ring, slipped it off, and looked inside. Immediately, he became calmer.

A little later, he was headed into one of his dark moods, when he again remembered the ring and looked inside. What he found there seemed to comfort him.

The king never told anyone what was inside the ring, and nor did the Fool, who received a title and lands. But after a long and wise reign, during which he frequently consulted the ring, the king died, and his eldest son, itching with curiosity, slipped the ring off his father’s finger and looked inside.

Engraved around the inside of the band were the words, “This too shall pass.”

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