I haven’t got very personal up to this point on this blog; it’s a professional blog, but it’s a professional blog, so I think it’s appropriate to talk about relevant personal stuff. Not politics or religion; I certainly have views on those, but for my hypnotherapy blog, not appropriate.
In case you had the idea that hypnotherapists have it all going on, that we never struggle with our own issues… Not so. I’ve decided at last to address my lifelong underweight problem, and I’ll be chronicling the experience here – kind of a worked example in real time of personal change.
Very few people are underweight – fewer than 3% in NZ, according to the Ministry of Health – but I am, and have been all my life.
So why am I doing something about it now? A few reasons.
Firstly, I’m taking a nutrition class as part of my Health Science studies at Massey University, and was startled to discover that my energy intake was low even for my height and weight. Then, secondly, I weighed myself for the first time in a while, to check that I was using the right weight. I’ve been saying for years that I weigh 57kg (126lb, for those still using non-metric measures) and have a BMI of 17, but when I actually weighed myself I was 5kg lighter than that. Which put my BMI at 15.5. Given that 18.5 is considered the lower end of the recommended weight spectrum, that gave me a shock.
At the moment I’m in a good space in terms of lifestyle, having made some positive changes already over the past couple of years, which helps with motivation. I’m eating healthily and exercising (dumbbells and cross-trainer). I’ve got my hypnotherapy training to draw on to help me over any emotional hurdles – and there are emotional hurdles in deliberately changing your body, regardless of whether it’s losing weight or gaining it. (Incidentally, I’ve been trying to avoid the term “weight loss” in favour of “weight reduction”, since if you don’t want it then getting rid of it isn’t a loss. But people may experience it as a loss, nonetheless – just like any personal change involves a loss of the old self-image.)
So I’ve begun. Drawing on my nutrition studies, I came up with a recipe for an “energy cookie” using healthy but energy-dense ingredients, and I’m eating a couple of those as snacks each day. (I’ll share the recipe in a later post.) I’m trying to double the size of at least one meal a day, as well, and I’ve gone back to drinking juice as well as water (I may also start drinking milk again, though it’s really expensive at the moment).
So far, so good; I’ve increased by 1kg in a bit over a week, which is a good rate of progress – I advise my weight reduction clients not to go for more reduction than that since it isn’t usually sustainable.
I do feel full most of the time, and it’s not entirely pleasant; I feel like I’m eating all the time and spending a fortune on food. I plan to work on these things with self-hypnosis.
I’m using fridgegraph to track my progress, and thus very slightly screwing with their front page statistics, since they’re a weight loss site and I’m aiming to gain. I’ve set a target weight of 67kg, which is 10kg more than I’ve ever weighed (to the best of my knowledge; I haven’t weighed myself all that frequently in the past). This would give me a BMI of 20, still on the low end but well within the “normal” range of 18.5-25. As I’m aiming to put on 1kg a week, and the weight gain required is 15kg, my target end date – giving myself a couple of weeks’ leeway – is my 41st birthday on the 10th of July.
If you want to do a similar weight change exercise, in either direction, or just eat more healthily, here are a couple of resources:
Nutritiondata.com has some great tools for calculating your nutritional needs, working out what you’re actually eating and what would be better, and looking up data on individual foods (they have star ratings for weight loss, weight gain and health for each food, and a slew of other information). I’m doing similar calculations as part of my course, using resources in our textbooks, but this site achieves the same end and is freely available to everyone.
World’s Healthiest Foods is another great source of comprehensive and free nutrition and health information for specific foods, which extensively cites scientific studies on the health benefits of particular foods.











