Jan 4

How to Stop Smoking

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This page pulls together my most useful posts and other information and links about smoking and how to stop smoking. As a hypnotherapist and health coach, I see a lot of people who want to quit smoking cigarettes, and I’ve studied the topic and become a bit of a stop smoking expert.

I have a series of videos in which I interview a client whom I helped to quit smoking (How to Get Unstuck), and she makes a great point: Stopping smoking is not just the best change you can make for your health. It’s a personal development issue. Quitting smoking is about taking back control of your life. It’s not just a medical issue, it’s an emotional issue too, as my article Smoking and anger management explores.

Not only anger, but also anxiety and depression are linked to smoking. In fact, one study found that people who smoke tend to have reduced quality of life. But smoking is widely used for stress management, creating a vicious cycle. (Smokers also sleep less soundly and become increasingly socially isolated, both of which are harmful to general and mental health). Even secondhand smoke can be linked to depression.

What’s more, every year, hundreds of thousands of people fail to stop smoking in my small country alone – millions worldwide. Help to quit smoking is badly needed.

So I’ve now released a free stop smoking ebook which is also part of an affordable online course for people who want help to stop smoking. The course is called Smokefree Life, and you can get it through that link, for about the cost of a couple of packs of cigarettes.

As well as material drawn from the posts and links I’ve set out below, it includes other useful quit-smoking methods, tools, tips and techniques, 5 relaxing hypnotherapy audio tracks and some of my best advice on stress management and motivation.

How nicotine works

When you smoke a cigarette, nicotine is absorbed through your lungs into your bloodstream and reaches your brain. (Most of the poisons in cigarettes are there to help it get to your brain more quickly.) In the brain, it stimulates receptors which directly affect the dopamine system, which is your motivation and reward system. This is one reason it’s so hard for many people to stop smoking cigarettes, because they fool your brain into wanting them (even if you don’t like them). How Stuff Works has an excellent summary of the whole process.

Ways to quit smoking

Smoking is a complex behaviour, and there is not just one method to stop smoking. Controversy rages, of course, over the best stop-smoking method: is it drugs, behavioural counselling, hypnosis? Despite the extreme positions you’ll find on all of those ways to stop smoking, there is evidence for all of them, and none of them is a magic bullet. Quit Smoking Methods sets out to list them all (with user contributions, some of them bizarre). Here are the ones I know most about.

Nicotine Replacement Therapy

I used to be opposed to NRT, but I’ve now changed my mind on nicotine replacement therapy. Like every other treatment, it doesn’t work for everyone quitting smoking, and it needs to be provided by someone who knows what they’re doing, and used correctly, if it’s going to be effective. But, with those disclaimers, I don’t believe it’s harmful and I do believe it’s helpful. I give it to my clients if it’s appropriate for their situation, based on a standard test that’s also in my ebook How to Stop Smoking (I’m authorised to give out NRT subsidy cards).

(For an alternative view claiming that NRT is harmful, see Ginzel et al from the Journal of Health Psychology, 2007.)

Stop-Smoking Drugs

Other drugs, such as varenicline (Chantix or Champix), are sometimes prescribed by doctors to help in stopping smoking. Among my most popular blog posts are two questioning the effectiveness and safety of varenicline: Just say no to stop-smoking drugs and more bad publicity for Chantix/Champix. The advice I hear is that (like anything else) it doesn’t work for everyone, but the people it does work for it works for really quickly. But it can have bad side effects, like any drug that messes about with your brain chemistry. Sounds like a last-resort option to me.

Hypnosis to Quit Smoking

As a Registered Hypnotherapist I’m obviously interested in helping people quit smoking with hypnosis. But does it work? (People ask me that all the time.) I go into the evidence in several articles here:

Support from others

Support from other people is very important if you want to stop smoking cigarettes. Some people are even using social media to help them quit smoking.

How to quit smoking

So, you might be asking, can you help me quit smoking? I’m glad you asked.

Start out with 10 tips to stop smoking and Dealing with recovery effects from smoking. (“Recovery effects” are also known as withdrawal symptoms.) They’re just two of my free online resources to stop smoking.

If you find you need more help, though, take a look at my free stop-smoking ebook, How to Stop Smoking, and my stop smoking online course, Smokefree Life. I’ve deliberately kept the course very affordable so that as many people as possible can get stop-smoking help (if I made it free, though, you wouldn’t have as much motivation to complete it, so I do charge something). A quit-smoking ebook, a simple, research-based method to quit smoking, a self-check, a quit plan template, and 5 hypnotherapy audio recordings in MP3 format are all included, and it covers questions that a lot of people have such as how to quit smoking without gaining weight, quit smoking withdrawal symptoms and the benefits of giving up smoking. Click here to find out more.

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Dec 22

How to Stop Smoking – New Online Course

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How to Stop SmokingI’ve just made my new stop-smoking online course, Smokefree Life, available on the courses page. I’m not doing a big launch like I did for the Stop Procrastinating, Start Succeeding course, partly because I suspect I have more readers who are procrastinators than who are smokers (am I right)?

I wanted to get it out now, though, because cigarette tax is going up again in New Zealand on 1 January, and people will be looking around for advice on how to stop smoking.

I’m not setting out to make my fortune from those unfortunates. In fact, I’ve decided that the ebook part of the course, How to Stop Smoking, will not only be free but Creative Commons-licensed (that means I’m encouraging you to share it with as many people as possible). Whether you buy the course or not, the ebook gives plenty of good advice on how to stop smoking, regardless of which of the many smoking cessation methods you use. It covers the health effects of smoking, benefits of giving up smoking (with a timeline), how to deal with quit smoking withdrawal symptoms, how to quit smoking without gaining weight, motivation to quit smoking and a few other popular topics.

What’s in the Smokefree Life course

If you do buy the course, you’ll naturally get extras over and above the ebook: half a dozen of my professional hypnotherapy MP3s to help you shift your thoughts, feelings and behaviours. They cover motivation, dealing with inner resistance, taking care of your body, and of course the process of quitting smoking.

For that I’m charging $19 (NZD). I settled on that number as roughly the price of a couple of packs of cigarettes, or less, in most countries. (Actually I think the NZ price will be not much less than that for one pack, in just a few days’ time.) It’s not the full worth of the course, but I wanted to strike a balance between being affordable and costing just enough that people would take it seriously.

I’ve developed these stop-smoking hypnosis tracks, and the ebook, from several years of working with clients face-to-face to help them stop smoking. You may remember my interview with Sarah James on how giving up smoking was a significant personal development move for her.

In that time I’ve learned a lot – I’ll do a more in-depth post in the New Year, pointing back to some of my previous posts on smoking as well. Smoking is a very complex behaviour, and the more resources you have when you’re giving up smoking, the better the outcome – so I’ve set out to give you as many resources as possible while still keeping it simple and clear.

So if you are thinking of giving up smoking, or know someone else who is, here’s the ebook: How to Stop Smoking.

And please share this post on Facebook and Twitter, or by email with anyone who would benefit from it.

Thanks. And Merry Christmas, if you celebrate it – my wife and I are going up to see my mother and sister at their new place and have a nice relaxed Christmas day.

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Aug 10

How To Get Unstuck

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When Sarah James is famous, you’ll be able to say that you saw me interview her, back when.

Sarah is one of my clients, and she very kindly and completely spontaneously offered to let me interview her about her personal growth journey from disintegration to integration, and how working with me has contributed to that journey. She originally came to me to stop smoking, but (as you’ll hear) it turned into much more than that.

I’ve split the interview into 4 short videos, totalling about 20 minutes. If you want just the audio, you can download it here.

In part 1, you’ll hear:

  • why a 38-year-old single mother-of-two and aspiring actress thinks it worthwhile to spend her scarce time and money working on personal development,
  • how smoking was a way for her to avoid herself and the circumstances of her life,
  • how she didn’t want suffering and stuckness and hating herself to be her only story, and
  • why she came to me to find ways to cope, become stronger and find out who she really is.

In part 2, you’ll hear:

  • what you should do if you start smoking (or whatever) again after you’ve stopped,
  • how important it is to do it for yourself and nobody else,
  • how to get beyond powerlessness and being stuck to be at home in yourself,
  • how “negative integration” can stand in the way of being your whole powerful self,
  • about motherhood, grace, ease and perfectionism, and
  • what happens once you take away the smokescreen.


In part 3, you’ll hear:

  • how facing things and speaking to yourself more kindly can flow over into better mothering,
  • how deep love can be hidden under feelings of incompetence and overwhelm,
  • how getting out of your own way improves your relationships,
  • how much difference 6 weeks can make,
  • how powerful it can be to work with a single metaphor over an extended period, and
  • about finding the “resonant core of your deep self” and persisting in following your heart.

In part 4, you’ll hear:

  • what to do if you feel stuck,
  • how to get your self back and find joy, and
  • what I do and don’t do to help you change.

If you are in a similar place to where Sarah was at the start of our work together, contact me and let’s talk about how you can follow her great example. (And yes, I can work with you remotely over Skype.) Or just pick up my free ebook, How to Stop Smoking.

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